Welcome back to another edition of Unthreaded.
This week I'm getting into something I've dealt with my entire career and still deal with more than I'd like to admit. Almost every founder I know carries it too, and almost nobody says it out loud, because saying it out loud feels like handing over evidence.
I want to talk about what imposter syndrome actually looks like once the business is working, and the two things that have helped me address it.
Let's get into it.
I was invited to speak at an event recently.
Everything went well, yet I still caught myself in a bit of a spiral while I was sitting on that stage.
I was feeling like everybody in the room knew more than I did, because I’m well aware of how much I’m still learning.
That's imposter syndrome, and I've dealt with it my whole career. I still do. A lot, if I'm being honest.
You have the skill, you've done the work, but you don't feel like you deserve the success you've gotten, and you're convinced everyone looking at you can tell you don't know what you need to know.
It shows up when people reach out for advice. It shows up on stage and at networking events.
It shows up everywhere, man.
I've been a student of my industry for years, and that means I understand how much I don't know, which is something I carry with me all the time.
There's always something I need to get better at, something I need to check. That awareness is honest, and if you've done the work, you carry it too.
Imposter syndrome takes that honest awareness and turns it into evidence that you don't belong. Those are two different things, and your mind will swap them on you if you let it.
One thing I had to get over is the idea that after you hit a certain stage, this stuff goes away.
It doesn't. You just run into new versions of it that make you feel like a rookie all over again.
Two things have helped me more than anything else:
The first is knowing that "I haven't thought about that" is an acceptable answer in any room. Confident people say I don't know all the time. Performing certainty you don't have is the actual fraud.
The second is staying insanely focused on getting results, because it's really difficult to lie to yourself when you keep proving you know how to get them.
Those approaches don't make the voice disappear, but they give you something real to point at when it starts to take over.
This week, you're going to build your evidence file, the record you point at the next time the voice shows up.
Most people argue with imposter syndrome in their head and lose, because the voice doesn't fight fair. You're going to put the proof on paper instead.
Copy the prompt below and paste it into Claude (or ChatGPT, or whatever AI tool you use).
It's going to interview you about your actual track record, push back when you try to shrink it, and then write the whole thing up as a one-page record in your own words.
You are helping me build an evidence file, a written record of my actual track record that I can reread whenever imposter syndrome gets loud.
Your job is to help me put the proof on paper.
Interview me one question at a time. Wait for my answer before asking the next question. Keep your questions short and plain, and follow up based on what I tell you instead of running down a fixed list.
Over the course of 8 to 12 questions, pull out the record. Get the results I've delivered that I'm most sure of, the clients or customers who had other options and chose me anyway, the ones who came back or sent people my way, the hardest problem I've solved in this business, and the things people consistently come to me for. Also ask me what I was afraid of a few years ago that I now handle without thinking about it.
Watch for me discounting my own wins. If I say something was luck, or timing, or mostly someone else's doing, ask me what I actually did in that situation and make me say it plainly. Do not let a real result get filed under luck.
Once you have enough, give me:
A one-page evidence file written in my own words, plain language, no hype, organized so the strongest proof is at the top. It should read like a record, not a pep talk.
A short version, two or three sentences, that I can read to myself before walking into a high-stakes room.
A simple script for the moment someone asks me something I don't have a good answer for, built around the fact that "I haven't thought about that" is an acceptable response.
One honest observation about the specific way I discount my own wins, based on what you heard in this interview, so I can catch myself doing it.
Start with your first question.
Save the file it gives you and put it somewhere you'll actually find it before the next big meeting, pitch, or stage.
Notice what happens while you build it. If you catch yourself arguing with the AI about whether your wins count, that's the exact habit the last section is there to name.
The record is real whether the voice likes it or not.
We'll keep building on this next week.
IN CASE YOU MISSED IT:
Today's edition was about feeling like a rookie even after you've proven yourself. This conversation is about what it looks like to become one again on purpose.
I sat down with Jeremy Pargo, who has played basketball everywhere from Chicago to Gonzaga, the NBA, overseas, and now the BIG3.
We get into growing up behind his brother Jannero's blueprint, learning from coaches like Byron Scott and Steve Kerr, and the lesson he wishes he understood earlier: talent gets you noticed, but obsession with the details is what separates the people who last.
We also talk about his next chapter, launching Pargo Productions and producing his feature film The Final Play. He walked into an industry where his track record counted for nothing and earned his place rep by rep (exactly what today's edition was about).
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